A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit, the conversation turned to complaints about stress in their work and lives. Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and an assortment of cups – porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite – telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.
When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said: “Notice that all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that you’re drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup; but you consciously went for the best cups… And then you began eyeing each other’s cups.
Now consider this: Life is the hot chocolate; your job, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life. The cup you have does not define, nor change the quality of life you have. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate God has provided us. God makes the hot chocolate, man chooses the cups. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that they have.
And enjoy your hot chocolate
1 Samuel 16:7b “…For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”
– Author Unknown –
When God looks at your heart, what does He see? Love or Hate? Generosity or Greed? Peace or Anger? Patience? Joy? Idolatry? Kindness? Envy? Gentleness or Rage? Goodness? Faithfulness? Are you filled with the empty promises of materialism, success, and wealth offered up by the world? Or do you live in the promises of God; knowing He’s in control and true joy can only be found in Him and not the world?
I’ve run the race for the expensive cup. It’s futile. All the time you spend trying to attain something that has no lasting or eternal value, is wasted. The pleasures of the world may provide instant gratification, but those pleasures are fleeting. Ultimately, it will all be lost. You can’t take your cup with you…No matter how nice it is. In reality, it’s all about the contents – what’s on the inside. “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose” Jim Elliot. Are you making the best of what you have, focused on the Father…or are you pouring over the intricacies of your cup?